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COVID19-093
– December 20, 2021 |
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Dear Patients: | ||
Bad news...well, that got your attention.
There is always bad news out there: global warming,
astonishing inflation, crime rates rising, and now, we are
at the beginning of a new Covid surge.
Then, there is really bad news that stops you in your
tracks. For most of us, the worst news is when someone you
care about, maybe a family member, or a good friend, learns
they have a serious illness. The bad news hits hard.
Sometimes, I am the purveyor of bad news but it's part of my
job. When I deliver the bad news, I try to make sure my
patient knows that they are not alone, and I make sure they
clearly hear that there are always remedies and there is a
plan. There must be a plan.
To the person who gets bad news, it's like a cold slap in
the face. They may never have seen it coming. Good health
and time are life's most precious commodities. And family
and friends are the glue that binds us tightly to each other
so that we can hold on. When you hear about someone who
seems fine and suddenly, they are not fine, it's scary. You
might even think, this could have been me. You may have had
issues with people who you care about who are the recipients
of bad news. Suddenly you may realize how unimportant, in
the big cosmic picture, those issues were. Hopefully, any
previous hurt, conflict, insults, or slights fall like hot
lead in cold water and hit the bottom of the bucket, never
to rise again. Too bad that it took bad news to bring that
into focus.
People with serious illness often are afraid. Our first job
is to let them know they are not alone, and we are here to
help. So, after you process really bad news, maybe in the "calm
of the morning" let go of stupid stuff that might
keep you from reaching out, and extend yourself with
compassion and love to help do whatever you can do. |
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COVID-19 Updates:
In Maryland, there are about 1,200 people hospitalized
presently, so 12% of the hospital beds on average are taken
up by COVID patients, the majority of whom are unvaccinated.
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Carole King's You've Got a Friend
- when facing tough times, we have each other to get us
through. |
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As a reminder, I'm no longer sending out daily updates and instead, I'm
updating you periodically. I continue to enjoy writing these
updates. Initially, these were only sent to my patients,
however, I've been humbled to learn that, through social
media, these writings have been forwarded and re-forwarded
to many. This has brought me great joy to know that this
simple act of sharing facts, thoughts, opinions, and hopes
have touched you in some way. Hopefully I've been able to
reassure you, maybe make you smile and laugh, soothe your
worries, and comfort you. And maybe, just maybe, I've helped
you to be in the moment! |
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Reach out. Stay connected. Stay home. Save lives. The power
of one. Be well.
Feel free to forward this on: spread the word, not the
virus.
HAO
24/7
Harry Oken, M.D.
Adjunct Professor of Medicine
University of Maryland, School of Medicine
Office 410-910-7500
Fax 410-910-2310
Cell 443-324-0823 |
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